Being a mom or dad is one of the essential and fulfilling roles that you will ever play in your life. There is no vacation or weekend when you are a parent, it is a full-time job. Besides all the responsibilities and the initial infant stages, one thing is sure that you will enjoy being a parent a lot. So it’s important for parents to set the parenting goal to help in the nourishment and development of the growing little ones.
Let’s discuss these parenting goals one by one.
1. Two-way communication
In this era when both parents are working or busy performing other household chores. It is very important for them to talk to their kiddiewinks and build a healthy relationship with them by being honest with each other. You should not restrict your kids from sharing things with you. Rather, your focus should be on building a relationship with your little ones where they are comfortable discussing anything and everything with you. This is how you will help your kid to open up their inner feelings and thoughts to you. All this behavior will enable an effective two-way communication with your little ones.
2. Stimulating Independence
Letting your children go slightly out of your sight is one of the most difficult things for the parents to do. But, when you teach your little ones about doing things without being dependent on anyone then this is how you will make them learn how to survive on their own, especially when you are not around. You can inculcate independence in your juniors by asking them to set goals for themselves wherein they target on finding the new skill that they like and further focus on developing them. This will not only be helpful for the little ones in testing their self-sufficiency but it will also prove beneficial in bringing your kids out of their productive shell. They will develop their self-esteem in a major way by following their skill.
3. Teaching mannerism and social skills
Manners reflect an individual’s way of conduct and their attitude towards life. In today’s world education is important, but learning good manners is equally important. So leading here by example would be a great way for your kids to learn and inculcate in them the good manners. Manners also include teaching your children not to discriminate people based on color, caste, and creed. As a parent, it is also important for you to teach your children how to behave in public and gatherings, as it is a by-product of manners.
4. Developing cordial relationship with the tutor
When the little ones start going to school, they end up spending more time interacting with their teachers. Parents should try to reach out to their educators so that they can get the right feedback regarding their little one’s performance in the class and overall conduct. This will help parents in establishing a cordial relationship with the teachers. All this will help in not only knowing your kids well but how they are in the class with their teacher and other students. This insight will help you in guiding your kids and shaping the personality of your juniors for the future.
5. Taking care of the health
There is a saying, « The greatest wealth is health. » Teach your kids the importance of leading a healthy lifestyle. What you teach your kids in their childhood will help them shape up their adulthood. You can teach them by first adopting yourself the healthy way of life which includes walking instead of going through lift or elevators, taking some time out from the technology and going out on a walk for fresh air, by sleeping on time, spending quality time with the family, eating healthy, and so on. This way the kids will slowly and gradually adopt these in their lives without even realizing.
In case you were confused about where to start, I hope I was able to give you an idea. So start making your own goals this year and feel free to share your thoughts on this one.
Best of luck with your parenting goals.
Source by Vaaridhi Vairagi